To say this weekend has been rough is an understatement.
My instinct is to keep things private. To discuss things is to let that wall down. To let people in is to show weakness. It goes against everything that has been bred into me since childhood. Yet sharing can be cathartic, and helps us grow. There has been a big change in my thinking, that I just noticed over the last few days. This weekend was challenging, but I overcame it.
When we went to bed on Thursday, I noticed Maddie, our 10 month old Australian Shepard, was acting strange. She tried to get up and couldn’t. Her body was raked with tremors that quickly developed into full blown seizures. It was a nightmare with my eyes open. Nothing is worse than not being able to go fast enough as your puppy shakes uncontrollably in your husbands arms.
We were able to get her to the vet, and thankfully, she is Ok, The Vet thinks she got into something and it had to work itself through her system. We got incredibly lucky, and are happy to have her home. Yet it was terrifying. You know it is part of the deal, but it doesn’t make it easier emotionally.
We stayed until they had fully checked her out. We didn’t get home until 3 am Friday morning. Maddie had been given Valium and was sleeping . We had to monitor as she came down, to ensure the seizures had stopped. I was up until 5 am and missed work on Friday because of it.
The rest of the weekend was bumpy as well. My paycheck was two days late, which was a major issue. We were not able to go out for our special dinner on Friday. I didn’t end up getting bills paid until Saturday. I also managed to get a nasty cold. Sick and tired, it has been difficult to rest and catch up on that sleep. The bad things just seemed to keep coming. It has been a challenging couple of days .
But, it is important to keep moving. And I believe that my focus on positive thinking has been paying off in big ways. In the past, a weekend like this would have brought me right down. I would have stuck in a bad mood, and unable to do anything. This weekend I was able to ride out the challenges, and do it with a positive attitude. I was also able to stay productive. I finished an entire book, and wrote. The chores were done, and the bills paid. It was challenging, but I was able to get things despite the challenges.
It was a good weekend, despite the issues. I am learning to rise above the daily challenges, and remain positive. There is a certain amount of pride that. life hasn’t been easy, but with the right attitude, I can overcome it. This revelation shows me what I am capable of accomplishing. It give me confidence to push into the future.
Till next time’